March 1975

From March 5 to 19, 1975, André corresponded with Angel during his work assignment from Delhi to Bhutan. André was the first Canadian Government CIDA Officer to visit Bhutan.

His recommendation to the Agency was: “Let them alone, they are happy! There is no need for involvement in development projects from foreign sources!”, This assessment didn’t necessarily please some Canadian officials!

Kingdom of Bhutan


March 5, 1975

Angel, Love!

While waiting for the plane to Bagdogra - the gateway to North-East India and the Himalayas, and the Darjeeling district of West Bengal - with three hours to spare, I decided to write to you.

Lately, my psychic condition makes it difficult to be very talkative, especially during these past few days. This is simply part of my nature—when I am under pressure, whether from work or other causes, I tend to withdraw into myself. I know this is not ideal for you, as you would like to share more, but please do not worry. Everything is fine with me, just a little too much on my plate now. I hope that once this trip is over, things will settle down, and I will be able to give both you and the children—especially Eric—more attention.

Now, I will try to answer some of your questions about this journey. Today, from Bagdogra, , a car from Bhutan will pick me up and take me to Phuensholing, a town on the border between India and Bhutan. I will spend the night there. The following day, March 6th, I will drive to Paro, one of Bhutan's most important towns, and then continue my trip until March 14th, at which point I will drive to Darjeeling, back in India. During my time in Bhutan, I am the special guest of the Bhutanese government, so I will not have to pay for accommodation or expenses.

In Darjeeling, from the 14th to the 17th, I will stay with several Canadian Jesuits who have received significant assistance from CIDA. I will visit their projects during this period. If you wish to write to me while I am there, you can do so care of Fr. Bruns, S.J. - Sharma (Editorial note: One of my assistants at de CHC of Delhi).

On the 17th, I will drive back to Bagdogra and fly to Calcutta. I will stay at the Oberoi Grand Hotel in Calcutta, and on the 18th and 19th, I plan to visit several projects. I will return home on the night of the 19th, thank God.

During my absence, please take good care of yourself and the children. As soon as possible, try to hire a sweeper and a gardener; I trust your judgment in making a good selection. Please inform Thomas (Editorial not: our cook) that a repeat of yesterday’s actions will not be tolerated—if it happens again, he will be dismissed. In any case, let him know that I am extremely upset and will speak to him upon my return.

As soon as you can, contact Srinivasan (Editorial note: One of my assistants at the CHC, Delhi) to arrange the paperwork for Sunita's adoption. If possible, begin the process for Sunita’s passport with help from the Indian Council. You will need photographs of Sunita, which have already been taken at Shanthi Niketan, and there should be some for you as well. These expenses can be reimbursed by the Canadian High Commission.

Authentic Buthanese mandela - given in 1975

Above all, keep smiling. God loves us, and I love you infinitely. I realize I do not express this as often as I once did, but I will try to change that going forward. Infinite kisses to you and the children.

Yours forever, André

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